Simply my life..: Was i wrong?

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Thursday, March 23, 2006

Was i wrong?

Had a huge quarrel wif my sis earlier on. We ended up crying.. But i didn't sob out loud like her.. Tears rolled down my cheeks after that..

This was what happened..

My sis was lazing ard despite me asking her to bathe.. Finali, when my maid asked her nicely to bathe, she was pissed off and commented that we are very irritating. HELLLLLLLOOOOOOOOO, it's already 8 plus and she heaven done her homework or bathe. ANd she wants to watch the 9 o clock show.

I told her off and she argued that we are forcing her too much. She went to the toilet and she kind of vented her anger on the toilet seat. I shouted:"If you're nt hapi, don't bathe!"She was so rude to haf replied"Shut up la"

I controlled my anger and went to take a shower. While I was in the toilet, I heard her slamming the door to show her displeasure. I was further annoyed when my maid told me that my sis asked her to get out of the room.

I opened up the room door and straightaway asked her what's her problem. My sis kind of me gave me the attitude prob and didn't even look at me. I pulled her earphone away and shouted at her.

"Can you all don't force me to study always? In school all the fucking teachers are like that. At home, you are also pushing me. U know how stress am I or not?" was her reaction and she burst into tears.

"I'm not forcing you but you have to be automatic. It's like 8 plus and u gona watch tv at 9. I'm jus asking you to put in 45 min of hardwork before you eatch tv. Is that too much to ask for?" I barked.

"Can't I just rest for a while?"

"Rest for a while? You came home at 2 plus. I already let u rest till 8. Not enuf rest?"

"I'm not like you- having a one month holiday and you can enjoy. You can play with your computer all day. But I can't."

"During the hols you did enjoy urself also. You played and watch tv all day long."

My dog was frightened by the commotion and ran to my maid. My maid then say "Ok la, jie>"

I went out of the room but while I was walking out, my sis told my maid to close the door cos she doesn't wana see my face. WDF!! She was damn idiot. I went back to the room and continued shouting at her, claiming that if she finds sch so tough then quit. She claimed that I wldn't understand. C'mon. I was once a secondary sch student and I've been thru it. Hw can I dun understand the stress? Once again, she broke down and said you want to force me till I die right?

"I'm nt askin u to study till u die."

"Last time bro didn't force you to study. Why must you do that to me now?"

"You are my sis. I care anbt u. I dun wan u to flunk your exams and get scolding frm mum or dad."

"Enuf la jie," my maid stopped us again.

I left the room and went to the living room. WHile holding the papers in my hands, tears rolled down my cheeks..

Was I wrong in asking her to put in some effort before she watches tv? After alll, she had abt 5 hrs to rest before that..

- posted by LinGal @ 2:36 AM

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